HERE'S A THOUGHT with THE MAKHS
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HERE'S A THOUGHT with THE MAKHS
Lerato and Phetola Makhetha are Digital Content Creators based in Johannesburg, South Africa. The couple is passionate about the advancement of thriving relationships and have displayed this passion both as a collective and as individuals. As parents of two beautiful girls (aged 7 & 2), building...
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WANDILE AND JESSICA MOLEBATSI ON: Racial Prejudice | Cultural Diversity | Love & Unity
In this powerful and candid episode, we sit down with Wandile and Jessica Molebatsi, who share their personal journey of navigating racial prejudice,...

Gc LUKHELE ON: DIVORCE | SUFFERING WELL & HEALING
As a platform dedicated to supporting and advocating for marriage, we understand that sometimes relationships don’t work out the way we hope. Divorce...

WE’RE BACK IN THERAPY! | Feeling Disrespected & UnSeen?
We’re back in counseling, and it feels like a new chapter. There’s a lingering issue we’ve been navigating, one that has kept us from seeing eye to ey...

THE MAKHS ON: EMIGRATION | SURRENDER | THE NEXT SEASON OF OUR LIVES
Are we leaving South Africa? The past three years have woven a tapestry of hope, joy, sorrow and everything in between. It is in the valley that we en...

Uviwe and Unako On: Backsliding | God's heart for man & The men in the church
The question was, where are the men in the church? Today, we sit down with Uviwe and Unako—our own David and Jonathan—to discuss backsliding and findi...

LERATO MAKHETHA ON: Overcoming Drugs | Finding Identity | Receiving Grace & Acceptance
In today's heartfelt installment, I sit down with my husband of 14 years to reflect on his vibrant childhood and the choices he made in his younger ye...

Too Stressed For Sex? | A Man's Perspective
Not initiating sex can leave individuals feeling emotionally bruised and struggling with low self-esteem, often creating a sense of insecurity within...

BONKO & LESEGO KHOZA ON: Faith | Evolution & Being in alignment
Bonko and Lesego Khoza‘s marriage is like a heartwarming romcom, revealing a deep connection that spoke volumes even before their first words. Now, as...

MOGALE & KABELO MOHALE ON: Vulnerability | Finding healing & choosing each other over & over
Mogale and Kabelo Mohale let us in on rising from the ashes. They speak candidly about how challenging the past 2 years have been on them. We know tha...

FAMILY TRADITIONS: WHAT TO KEEP, WHAT MUST GO
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MARRIED PEOPLE, STOP THIS!
When it comes to inquiring about the state of a married couple's relationship, it's wise to tread lightly, for they often tend to emphasize the challe...

LEADERSHIP IN MARRIAGE | What does it look like?
We discussed submission at length about 2 weeks ago. Phetola share how sometimes lack of leadership could have been her stumbling block in submission....

WHY WE STOPPED VLOGGING | *THE REAL REASON
We took a break from Vlogging and this is whhy…Vlogging can create a sense of detachment and disconnection from the people and experiences that truly...

MY WIFE STRUGGLES WITH SUBMISSION | Submission & Leadership
The topic of submission can be a contentions one. What is submission? What does it look like? Does it look different for different couples? What's God...

UNSCRIPTED| Thabo Bester | Dalai Lama | Things that shocked us this week
We discuss things that shocked us this past week...
#themakhs #thabobester #dalailama

IS IT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO SHOOT THEIR SHOT?
Should women pursue men? Ask them out or even propose marriage? We would love to hear from you.
#themakhs #dating #women
Ple...

FRIENDSHIP
Ever heard the saying, “show me your friends, I’ll tell you who you are”? In this instalment we discuss how our friendships have shaped who are.
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STORY TIME | IS IT WORTH SAVING FOR A BIG WEDDING?
We spend so much time investing in the wedding day and forget to invest in the marriage itself. The question is, is it worth saving for a big wedding…...

MY WIFE QUIT SOCIAL MEDIA * This is what happened
This year when my wife did the annual Daniel Fast she made a decision to also quit social media for that period.. The results were incredible! Have yo...

DR JERRY & MAMA CLAUDINE: SECRETS TO A LASTING MARRIAGE
In our first instalment of 2023, we speak with the Makhs Seniors (Ntate Jerry Mofokeng wa Makhetha & Mama Claudine) . We discuss some secrets to a hea...

7 THINGS/IDEAS TO LEAVE IN 2022 | Past Hurts | Who you/your partner used to be & more
As we approach year end, it’s always a beautiful time to reflect on the year that was, In life and love.
As people we usually approach the new...

IS YOUR PARTNER INTIMIDATED BY YOUR SUCCESS?
When we got married we were encouraged that the only thing that we should be competing about is out- loving each other.
What then happens in a...

REJECTED AND OVERLOOKED
Ever felt like you’ve put in the work, showed up and worked harder than the next person and was still overlooked? Being overlooked can sometimes bring...

SHOULD YOU ASK FOR PERMISSION FROM YOUR PARTNER?
In today’s instalment we unpack whether it is necessary to ask for permission from your partner. From going out, the clothes we wear and the money we...


HOW HONEST CAN YOU BE WITH YOUR PARTNER?
It’s not always easy letting our partners know that they might have a body odour issue, or that things aren’t that amazing in the bedroom. Have you ev...


SO… ABOUT CHURCH GUYS & GIRLS
There’s a lot of apprehension from church girls to date men in the church and vice versa.
We unpack this in our current instalment♥️
#dat...

Adulting 101 | Are you covered?
Are you doing what is necessary to ensure that your loved ones are well taken care of?

ALTER EGO | CAN YOU COMPLETELY BE YOURSELF AROUND YOUR PARTNER?
Do you have an alter-ego and are you comfortable with sharing that part yourself with your partner?
Comment below to share your thoughts.

THE GOD STORY | RETRENCHMENT RELOADED
In todays instalment, Phetola shares on how God walked with her through the valley of her retrenchment journey.

MARRIED PERSON vs SIDE | WHO SHOULD UPHOLD THE MARRIAGE VOWS
Who should be held responsible or accountable in an affair.
The married party or the side? We unpack.
#marriagevows #sidechicks #sidem...

CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER LEHAKOE | SELF IMAGE | GOD | HELPING THE POOR
In today's instalment, Phetola has a heart-to-heart with Lehakoe in a candid conversation about life, growing up and a vision for the future...

MARRIED COUPLES HAVE LESS SEX | TRUE OR FALSE
We’ve all heard the jokes about the frequency or infrequency of married sex. Is this a fact or myth? If true, how can we cultivate and sustain a sat...

THE PRESSURE TO FIT IN
Why do we feel the pressure to fit in when we were born to stand out? We learn from Psychology, broken down by the Maslow’s hierarchy of needs that...

ARE GENDER ROLES STILL RELEVANT?
In a world where some women are earning more than their partners and some men choose to be stay at home dads, are gender roles still relevant?

DATING | WHAT DATING ADVICE WOULD WE GIVE OUR DAUGHTER or YOUNGER SELVES
In celebration of the month of love, we unpack what dating advice we would give our daughters or our younger selves♥️

COMMUNICATION HACKS FOR HIM
Today we discuss Communication Hacks For HIM.
Love, The Makhs
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COMMUNICATION HACKS FOR HER
We get a lot of people asking us whether we ever fight.
Well…we disagree a lot less these days.
A lot of our arguments stemmed from misc...

REACTION PODCAST: DEVON FRANKLIN & MEAGAN GOOD DIVORCE| WHEN MARRIAGE FAILS
In today’s instalment we react to Meagan Good and Devon Franklin’s divorce.
Love, The Makhs
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