Is My Independence Keeping Me Single? #HMAY Ep. 264

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What if your independence isn’t a strength—but a shield? 💔 A 28-year-old listener has neve...

My Husband Has Been Sleeping On The Couch For 5 Years #HMAY Ep. 263

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“Help Me Ge...

You're Not Gonna be a Lazy Mother #HMAY Ep. 262

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"Am I going to be a lazy m...

My Husband Deleted Me Off of His Instagram #HMAY Ep. 261

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A listener married young and in love; years later, pregnant with a toddler at home, she’s w...

I Don't Know if I Can Handle My Husband’s Vulnerability HMAY Ep. 260

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Is wanting vulnerability the same as being ready to hold it? A newlywed (90-something days i...

She Don't Like You Black Brother #HMAY Ep. 259

A brother wrote in after a three-year long-distance rollercoaster where tough talks turned into silence and her parents turned hostile. He prayed for...

In Case You Forgot Where We Stand on Polyamory... #HMAY Ep. 258

A 27-year-old listener in a three-year poly relationship wants simple guardrails—tell me when you’re out with someone else, if you’re spending the nig...

I Might Lose a Friend to Gain a Husband #HMAY Ep. 257

Is God’s will bigger than girl code? ✝️


When a listener in her church circle and her friend’s ex catch real feelings, the trio dy...

Montego Bay, Marriage & Messy Growth #HMAY Ep. 256

What do you do when the man you want to be feels out of reach? 💍🇯🇲


Recorded in Montego Bay while Glen and Yvette celebrate 15 ye...

That Girl is NOT Your Friend! #HMAY Ep. 255

What do you owe a friend when romance enters the chat? 💔


A listener matched with a guy and told her girls how excited she was—on...

I Never Expected My Boyfriend to Rage Like That #HMAY Ep. 254

What happens when the "perfect boyfriend" suddenly explodes? 😳


A listener writes in about her kind, generous dream man—until he...

Did I Just Dump My Future Wife? #HMAY Ep. 253

Can a prophetic word outweigh chemistry that’s already lit the fuse? 🕯️


One listener writes in torn between a four‑year, on‑again...

He Made Me Walk Home...Should I Walk Away? #HMAY Ep. 252

Can love survive emotional whiplash and a husband who leaves you on the curb? 😶‍🌫️
One listener kept chasing a woman who ping‑ponged between “...

He's a Decade Older Than Me but Hear Me Out! HMAY Ep. 251

A 26‑year‑old listener feels sparks 🔥 with a 35‑year‑old pastor, but her dad and step‑mom insist, “He’s too old!” Now she’s weighing wisdom, faith ✝️...

My Girlfriend’s Holding Us Down. Am I Holding Her Back? #HMAY Ep. 250

What do you do when you realize nobody’s coming to save you? 🧠💔📉


In this episode, we hear from a 24-year-old man who's been in...

My Sister's Boo'd Up and I'm Grieving Alone #HMAY Ep. 249

What do you do when the glue of your family is gone—and everything starts to come undone? 🕊💔


In this episode, we hear from a list...

My Mom and Stepdad Are Suddenly Polyamorous #HMAY Ep. 248

When your parents’ lifestyle makes you uncomfortable—what do you do? 🤯


In Episode 248, we read an email from a woman trying to na...

How Do I End This Creative Dry Spell? #HMAY Ep. 247

What do you do when the creativity dries up? 🎤📱💭


In this episode, we hear from a female rapper who’s feeling stuck. She went fr...

I'm Not Supposed to Know Her Business but I Want to Help #HMAY Ep. 246

This week, we’re responding to two emails—both full of tension, questions, and heart.


First up:
A man writes in, self-consci...

I Can't Be Myself Around My Wife #HMAY Ep. 245

What do you do when your marriage feels like your biggest regret? 😔


This week, we hear from a husband who’s at his breaking point...

Her Family Has Internalized Racism Issues and I Want No Part of It #HMAY Ep. 244

What if your family background feels like something you’ve had to escape—like you came from bad cloth—and now you’re trying to build a life from somet...

How Do I Convince Him to Go to Therapy? #HMAY Ep. 243

This week’s email hits deep. A wife writes in, asking for advice on how to encourage her husband to go to therapy to address childhood trauma. But he’...

My Sister Got Violent & I'm Just Supposed To Get Over it?! #HMAY Ep. 242

Sisters. Podcasts. Beef. And… a flying water bottle?! 🥴💥


This week, we’re diving into a wild email from a listener caught in som...

Are All These Men Trash...Or Is There More To The Story? #HMAY Ep. 241

Are all the husbands out here flopping… or are we just not hearing the whole story? 🤔💭


In this episode, we read another email fr...

Life on the Farm Wasn’t What We Expected #HMAY Ep. 240

Sometimes you gotta move to find your peace. 🏡✨


Last year? Whew. It was a whole lot.
We moved out to the farm thinking it...

My Husband Refuses to Brush His Teeth! #HMAY Ep. 239

“My man only brushes his teeth once a week… and still wanna kiss me in the mouth?!” 😩🪥


This listener wrote in with a situation t...

I Probably Shouldn't Have Married Him…Now What? #HMAY Ep. 238

He gave up his best friend for love… but was it worth it? 💍💔And what do you do when marriage hits hard just four months in? 😬


I...

He Planned on Letting Her Find Out at His Funeral! #HMAY Ep. 237

What do you do when God is the one exposing the truth in your marriage? 😳💔


In Episode 237, we’re diving into one of the wildest...

I’m Tired of Having to be the Bigger Person #HMAY Ep. 236

Feeling like you’re always the bigger person in your relationship? The optimist, the problem solver, the one carrying all the weight? 😮‍💨

Is He Marriage Material? #HMAY Ep. 235

Is he marriage material? 💍


In today’s episode, we tackle the question of whether emotional connection is enough to build a future...

The Cheeks Gotta Get Clapped #HMAY Ep. 234

Worried your wedding night might be whack? 😩


One listener wrote in with a big concern—she’s marrying a virgin and is nervous abo...

Somebody is Gonna Have to Submit #HMAY Ep. 233

In this episode, we’re diving into the real-life dilemmas y’all are facing—like when to make sacrifices for your partner, how to balance your career w...

The Hardest Audience Questions We've Ever Answered 😮‍💨💭 #HMAY Ep. 232

What do you do when trust is broken, expectations aren’t met, and life just keeps piling on—loss, grief, addiction, betrayal, finances, job stress—lik...

Do You Need Feelings for a Lasting Marriage? Let’s Talk. #HMAY 231🎙️💍

Is being in love necessary for a marriage that lasts? Or is love as a choice enough? In this episode, we’re breaking down emotional attraction, physic...

She gave me an Ultimatum #HMAY Ep. 228

Episode 228 of #howmarriedareyou discusses listener's voicemail message, where a young man is struggling with his fiancée's demand that he cut ties wi...

We Don't Agree on Homeschool #HMAY Ep. 227

Sold Our House Moved to A Farm #HMAY Ep. 225

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How To Tell Your Wife She's Wrong #HMAY Ep. 224

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Can I Divorce My Emotionally Abusive Husband? #HMAY Ep. 223

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Five Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage #HMAY Ep. 222

In this episode of "How Married Are You?" (Episode 223), hosts Mrs. Melanin and Beleaf discuss a variety of personal and family stories, including the...